Tuesday, December 23

My journey from being Single towards Ready to Mingle

A friend asked me a weird question- Why am I single as yet??
Being my crammed answer, I repeated that 'I haven't found someone as appealing as yet' :D
But then, I guess its high time now, since all the Mission Dulha Dhoondo going on, I have to release my stake as well :D
Well, I got no hard n fast rules to like some one.
But yeah, the only thing that I like in a guy/ gal/ person is wits.

And besides, not being modest, in a guy, I look for the spark in the eyes, a b'ful- contagious smile- that can bring me to smile too and good hair :D
Now, I know this is what everyone likes, but still, it takes a great deal for me to make confessions :D

But if you ask me, my guy, well besides being nice, gentleman, the personality is important too.
The inner and outer things separated you know.

I mean I would never liked to be seen with a guy who doesn't carry himself well. That doesn't mean I would want my guy to wear no less than Versace, but yeah, whatever he wears, he should carry it well, so well that people look back at him :D
He has to have an elegant posture, a good body language is a must, I do not ask for a hunk, muscular, toned body, I always say, I feel like those hunks got muscles in their brains too ;)

Additional advantage to those who have a good sense of accessories too ;)

Then, he has to be verbose. Good communication skills, unlimited vocab and knowledge is vital. Since I run of topics in a conversation, he has to be an initiator, and most important of all, he should have the ability of keeping me interested :D

Most sought attributes are- love for music and dance.

As far as internal, humane part of him is concerned, obviously, I mean chilled out totally. Space is what i need the most- breathing space. Well, I would like to be a part of someones life, not all of it. I dun want him to treat me like a princess or something, but just casual.
I feel, to be my mate, he will have to be my friend.
Loving/ caring part, I dunno, but yes, one thing I can ask for is if he could listen to me sometimes would do just great...

Signing off for now..

P.S. This not at all an inviting alliances post. :D

39 Obiter Dicta (Comment here):

Anonymous said...

Wow richa, thats very good wishes to be in a man....

the most important attribute is he shud let u be urself and accept the way u r......

and of course carry himself well....it matters how the couple looks together....

All the best!!

lukkydivz said...

LOL so many CONDITIONS in love :D u just proved.. love comes with conditions :D

MultiMenon said...

hoho!!das a reallly good set of criterion u ve got..hope u get a match asap.. :)

Gauri Mathur said...


Divya said...

oooohhhh... very very interesting ;)
i hope you're dream guy reads this post.. wow! that would be great indeed :D
nothing less than versace??? aaahhh... high class taste eh?? :P

Mahul Bhattacharya said...

That's quite a list!

Best of luck to your husband, whoever the unfortunate be!


Anonymous said...

I agree with all of those qualifications. Good ones.


" I would like to be a part of someones life, not all of it. "

Cheers :)

- sydney

divinediu said...


Mr Perfect, eh?

Update me on this one, willya? :D

divinediu said...

And oh.......Welocme back!!


Kartz said...

Ah... Humankind is such a whimsical lot. :)

Heh heh heh... Good luck buddy! Hope and pray you meet *him* soon! :)

Season's greetings to you and all your family. Thanks for the lovely greeting. :)

And heh heh heh... Chennai mein ACs can run thru out the year! So, your 'upgrade' from fan-ship to AC-ship is very much obliged! :) Chennai mein there is no Winter... :D

Peace. Tc. Be well.

Chak de in Chandigarh? :)

Richa said...

@ Sam

well, thnx for putting up the being oneself part, but i dun mind a li'l compromising for him too..



Richa said...

@ Divz

buddy we aint talkin bout love here :D

Richa said...

@ Multimenon

thnx for ur wishes n droppin in..

keep comin back :)

Richa said...

@ Gauri

thnx buddy :)

since we have discussed it in detail i ll refrain from sayin anything else :D

Richa said...

@ Divya

i havent dreamt of him as yet ;)

but if he reads it sumhow, well, i guess he ll doubt himself :D

u bet!! ;)

Richa said...

@ Mahul
ur guess is ryt
the unfortunate one :D

n i wud admire his guts too to take the risk of spending his life with me :D

Richa said...

@ Sydney

thnx buddy :)


Richa said...

@ Blogtwin

perfect or imperfect i am ignorant about :D

sure ill do update :D

n thnx for the welcome :)

love yah!!


Richa said...

@ Kartz

thnx for all ur wishes :D

seasons greeting to u too :)

i know bout the weather conditions in Chennai, ths y i upgraded without hesitation :D

yepp enjoyin in chd fogs !!
will update soon on my activities here :D

Trinaa said...

arrey arrey...enjoy being single na!

Arjun said...

hehe... Poor guy.. :P lolz..

Seriously.... U've just mentioned the characteristics of a 'Perfect Guy'.
Hope u find one soon.. :)


Twisted Elegance.... said...


I am not your guy


Jagjit said...

Did you said, "Well, I got no hard n fast rules to like some one", in the beginning? OMG! the guy has to go though rigorous tests before appearing for the interview... Hmmm let's see if someone is so talented... Wish ya luck girl, and him too - loads of it...

- Jagjit.

Toonfactory said...

Hello there...real nice Blog space...and some real cute posts...really liked d place..will be visiting often now on...
(hope U wont mind an uninvited guest)..
Merry Christmas &
ATB for the Mission : Dulha Dhoondho

Richa said...

@ Trinaa

hehe.. i love being single buddy, but since u havent caught up with the mission dulha dhoondo thing, i can understand ur saying soo :D

Richa said...

@ Arjun

'Perfect guy' yeah, perhaps i havent found him yet cuz nuthn like perfect exists :D

Richa said...

@ twisted

i guess nobody is. no such guy can exist :D

Richa said...

@ Jagjit

finally, u got the point.
i have been hopin for sum1 to catch tht :D

lolz.. u havent seen or heard of the eligibility criterion set by my mom as yet ;)

n thnx, i need the wishes, n more than me, the he needs them

Richa said...

@ Toonfactory

thnx dude!!

n u r more than welcome to come back anytym :D

season greeting to u too :)

n thnx..

CяystąL said...

Hahaha..I agree with you,dudette..finding a suitable guy is like a bigtime Herculean task..
but apart from tat..Be single..and be happpy!! :D
Merry Christmas!!

Phoenix said...

bap re kitna bara list hain!! :O :)

Chriz said...

this is not an alliance comment.. but i cant refrain from writing tis one mainly because i haveta announce that i am coming back to the world of blogging on the first of january 2009..
ok lemme comment on this post
1) wits -yes
2)sparkling eyes -check the link under my header line in my page.
3)hair-i am growing my hair like dhoni.. i look like a golliwog now. but dont worry. it is just the transition stage.
4)inner thing - jockey(undhar kaa mamlaa)
5)outer thing -lee trousers (mostly, when i dont go for the duplicate ones)
6)elegant posture.. i can stand upside down on my head
7)muscles in my brains- you are unlucky on this one point
8)good sense of accessories.- i get full points for this? i have my water bottle,perfumed hanky, dirty socks always with me
9)great vocab- i can learn.. so dont worry abt that.. initiator. oh yeah
10)music and dance -yeah yeah
11) space- you take the entire house.. ill be on the soccer ground

me to signing off now... i had fun writing this comment...
jokes apart hop down to my page.. i have made some changes.. and there is gonna be a definite change on the 1st of january/..
have a great christmas and a rocking new year

god bless

Akshat said...

Forget the nay-sayers. I don't think you are asking for anything extraordinary, you will certainly find it. Best of luck :)

Richa said...

@ Crystal

:D herclean task.. lolz.. m literally rolling, u coined so apt term :D

i m real happy being single buddy :D but the tyms r now demanding of the other way..

thnx for droppin in, keep coming back :)

Richa said...

@ raka

It isnt exhaustive yet :D

Richa said...

@ Chriz

u made my day to announce u r comin back, i sooo missed yah :D

n ROFL!!!

i mean cramped my stomach readin ur comment :D

accessories n space thing particulary :P

merry christmas to u too :)

Richa said...

@ Akshat

woooh... an optimist :D

n thnx buddy :)

keep coming back...

Anandit _ Andy said...

That seems to be a bit too much!!

Richa said...

@ Andy


indeed it is too much :)

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