Friday, May 8

Why Me!!



For a change, this post isnt going to be Grammar and language oriented one.

The title of the post is apt. I am tired of saying "God try me". Rabb ji mera 'try' ka button press kar ke bhool gaye lagta hai.

I woke up in a rotten mood today. Why rotten, dont ask me. Might be some dream I dont remember. To add on to it, I felt inflated. AAArrggghhhh!! Gym me haddiyaan tudwa ke pagal ho gayi hoon and fir bhi inflated!! Kya musibat hai.
Zindagi jhandwa wala din hai aaj.

Was talking to a friend online and she was super pissed off on the very same old problem- shaadi. I fail to understand, is shaadi the centre of the universe?
I fail to understand the folks. They inculcate you with ambitions while you are growing up. Kuch karo, kuch banke dikhaao. Aur jab turn aati hai kuch ban ke dikhane ki toh pata nahi kahan se beech mein ye shaadi tapak padti hai. Shaadi karo. Acha aur to aur, pehle to sara din padho- padho aur kuch mat karo, aur fir suno padhayi mein reh gaye, koi ladka dhoondh hi lete. Kya musibat hai.
Okay, I love my folks, I know whatever they do is for my own best, but I am cribbing today. Dint I say I am rotten mood.

Aur suno abhi. Kuch log itne mean hote hain. Jab apna mann kara aa gaye mooh uthha ke aur jab zaroorat nahi hai toh poocho bhi na mud ke that why aren't you talking? Do you have some problem? As if the other person is problem-proof and emotions-proof.
As if hum to wehle hain. I am tired of being at some one else's disposal. Mujhe zyada aakhar aayi hui hai jo I have to drag the relationship? ( Am I the only desperate one?)
Koi na. Gin Gin ke badle loongi.

Sabse badi musibat toh batana bhool hi gayi. Yaar padhayi karna bada hi aukha kaam hai. (hard, difficult job). Aiwen hi bina zaroorat ki musibat mol le li hai maine!! Phew!! *Drains sweat off the forehead*

Bas haan bas. Kaafi hai aaj ke liye.




34 Obiter Dicta (Comment here):

Jinxed Pixie said...

ok, well, i had a bad day too...

:( :X

enchantinganki said...

Gym me haddiyaan tudwa ke pagal ho gayi hoon and fir bhi inflated!! Kya musibat hai.
Zindagi jhandwa wala din hai aaj.(hahahha- same is with me)

Rabb ji mera 'try' ka button press kar ke bhool gaye lagta hai.
(mere mai stop ka button bhul gaye..hehehe)

As if the other person is problem-proof and emotions-proof.(lol..)

i know u r in problem..but kya karu hasi aa rahi hai :-)

vaise koi gal nai, tats d season i guess..sabse yahi sunne mil raha hai!!

Ria said...

I understand hw u feel!!and abt the gym bit....well i can totally identify with wht u hav written. I think this was jus one of those days, u'll be fine soon babe!!

Phoenix said...

awww le mera baby... i know the kinda shit u r going through,,,

chal ak kaam kartein hai.. tu main aur harshi bhag chaltein hai...we will be the awesome threesome.. in our own little paradise.. and we will keep the parasites[men] away... :)

what say?

AD said...

XOXOXOXOXOXOX!

feel better?
or worse now?

The Rat... said...

awww,.... come lemme give u a hug...

we are in d same boat darling... rite from early morning wen i get up groggily to the time i hit d sack @ nite, i get to hear nothing but marriage this marriage that and marriage wat not.. shucks as if though there nothing else in life... :( lame lame lame

ki said...

Marriage is not the be all and end all of everything! *huggg*

Arnab Majumdar said...

I don't understand that concept as well. After all, it is ultimately your life, and you should have the freedom to live it the way you want to. But then again, I guess like you said, they probably think that this is for the best - a thought which comes from the fact that they have your best interests in heart.

I hope you figure out a way to tell your parents that... good luck with it :)

Cheers...

muthu said...

hmhm..... yeah. I can understand when you say about bad hair days... no I dont get inflated and i dont get pestered with marriage....

my bad hair days usually begin with my mom and sis getting angry with me, my pc not working properly, my mobile not having charge to place an important call... yaar.. it s a diff univ entirely but the

desperate feeling of why me does remains the same....

hmhm.... ofcourse every 1 say kuch kar dikao.... I think they say it b coz... somewhere inside them, they themselves are blaming their mundane life and want to do something with it but are tied down by the society or they they they are tied down...

People are like that... i would not take what they say to the heart if I am you... Life is not about achieving it s about loving and living...

if you aren't sharing a bit of your life and a tad of a smile now and then, then you are missing the whole point....

marriage is one of those hyped institutions.... there is no need to worry about it.. things will happen when are meant to...

jus remember one thing.

Much as anybody tells you what to do, do what you really wanna do....

nobody can love your life more than you... right???

(yikes.. i never meant write such a long comment, but it jus kind a happened. so do 4give me yaar.. if i had bored you...)

Dream'R said...

Whoa which side of the bed did you wake up on!!..uff..itna irritated..!!

But sorry ok..i just couldnt stop myself from grinning while reading your post. ;-)

Yaar..take deep breaths..the deeper the better. I know u r pissed about this marriage concept totally but i guess you ve already accepted how its gonna turn out to be..i believe thats y u r pissed...at the end of the day like you said ur parents only want the best for u..but if u have something to tell em..i strongly believe u should present it properly to em...try ur luck..u never know rite..;-)

And relationships and stuff..sorry i m not the person to advice u..so i wont even start on it.;-)
And Gym toh u ll have to be persistant and dogged...there is no other way..else u can always quit after 3 weeks like me..hehe

luv
Amith

Harshita said...

hahaha.... Same pinch baby! :)

I wonder pehley boltey they... pado.. bas pado... aur ab boltey hain..."Aur padd ley... ek bhi ladka nahi milega"

ROFL...

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Haha....ok i understand that you are suffering a lot :P

after all tumhari life hai...tum jo karna chaho kar sakti ho na..richa...:)

just enjoy girl.....:)

Kartz said...

Life cometh a circle.

Sab changa hoga, yaar. Tc.

:)

Peace. Be well.

Mayz said...

u need a jadoo ki jhappi

hugzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!!! :)

яノςんム said...

@ Jinxed Pixie
awww.. babes.. Hugz!!!

яノςんム said...

@ Anki
lolz, its okay, u can laugh, it is the only way i guess to stay away from stress :D

яノςんム said...

@ Ria
thnx babes.. :)

яノςんム said...

@ raka
hehehe.. good idea!! i am in :D

яノςんム said...

@ Seher
thnx babes.. definitely better :)

XOXOXOXO!!

яノςんム said...

@ d rat
awww. thnx for the hug :)

i so know the marriage thing.. ask me :D

яノςんム said...

@ Ki
aww.. ths so correct..

thnx for the hug :)

HUGZ back!!

яノςんム said...

@ Arnab
my folks are aware but its all right.. m learning to be patient :)

яノςんム said...

@ Muthu
thnx for the lovely comment.., ill try implementing them :)

яノςんム said...

@ amith
lolz.. its okay u can laugh loud as well :D

phew!! convincing folks is the hardest thing in the world for me.. blv me..

its okay, i aint talking about tht relationship thingy, but in genral. anyways, its okay. :D

and gym, now ays, I m determined to fit into tht LBD till my bday :D fingers crossed :D

яノςんム said...

@ Harshi
lmao!!
i swear!!

яノςんム said...

@ Mahesh,
thnx buddy, i am trying to enjoy!!

яノςんム said...

@ kartz
:O
chnaga?? punjabi?? wow!!

thnx :)

яノςんム said...

@ mayz

awwwwww.... ths sooo sweet and needed..

thnx buddy :)

hugz back!!

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

Hey richa..

i left a comment for u...

pls check out..

Dhanya said...

Ahhh, the pressure is getting to u too huh ? For the past two years, I have been under tremendous pressure... made me pull almost all my hair out. But I figured that I can't get rid of all this nonsense even if I wanted to. So dealing with it in a quiet and calm manner...

Praveen said...

get outta your rotten mood fast!!! :D

put on some music...stand up and jump..or else headbang !!!
all worries gone to hell!

Chronicwriter said...

hahaha..

fall in love.. get married

chriz

sawan said...

hehehehe lol, tho gin gin ke badla liya?? :)

arrey, thu tension mat lo yaar.. ek pyaara sa munda mil jayega tune aur tum apni saari tensions bhool jayegi :) teek hein?? ab ek pyari si smile dho :)

bondgal_rulz said...

Haye re!!! Koi na kudiye....as Karthik said....sab changa hoyega...kyunki change logaan de naal changi hi honda hai. :D

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