Monday, May 4

Totally random!!



Why is it that 'friends' keep coming back to you when they need you and when you are in need, you are all alone?

P.S. This concerns no-one in particular, it is just a random thought.



50 Obiter Dicta (Comment here):

muthu said...

hmhm.. thats a sad thought.

I think it s because we are so occupied with feeling sorry for ourselves that we forget we can go to our friends for help.

It happens... even to those who think they are the most cheerful and independent of all.

And why is such a thought occurring to you... if i may ask that is...

Tushar Mangl said...

** Yawninggg ***

It took you 25 years of life to get to realize this statement

*** Yawninggg again and going off to sleep ***

Kartz said...

LoL @ what Tshr Mngl said. :D

Otherwise, yeah - c'est la vie. The thing is, even your *friend* might be thinking JUST THAT!

:D

Peace.

Ria said...

thts bcoz its a selfish world out there, where ppl think only abt themselves!!

enchantinganki said...

u bet!!

i am thinking about this from past few days...

then i thot tat may be I too have done might not have been a good friends!!

or does this really matter at the first plcae (their help)??

..pAnKHuRi.. said...

firstly..
tushar ka woh over dramatic view ki koi zarurat nai thi..im telling you..but he never the else told the very truth of life :-))
secondly..
kartz ki baat mein bhi bhut point hai :-))

thirdlyy..
cheer my sister :-))
life is all bout looking at the positive side and not the negative one..which gives you nothing but sadness :-))
so smile :-))))

but this tushar i tell you..
typical overdramatic fellow...
i am still laughing at his comment..hahaha

Arnab Majumdar said...

That might be due to the fact that people are generally selfish in nature. There are exceptions, no doubt, but then there are times in your life when those exceptions are nowhere to be seen. It's at times like these that you get to know your own strengths, so look at the bright side of it :)

Cheers...

Dhanya said...

I somehow support you in that. I have very few friends who actually come to me during my sad days. And when I am all happy, cheerful and cracking jokes, the rest of em appear out of nowhere. Thankfully, I have understood who my real friends are coz of these situations :)

Gauri Mathur said...
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ki said...

Everyone is the 'matlab ka yaar type' na!

Mayz said...

coz we dont have "friends"...we jus have a "friend"

AD said...

i think it ll flatter me :)

Gauri Mathur said...

Very Apt Richa!

Keshi said...

I hv had that happening to me alot. Even in Blogville. They needed me when they were around, but now they dun even say a single Hello...I realised that they do that ONLY to me. I dunno why. Maybe they hate my guts but just needed me just for the 'show'.

Now I dun try to u'stand such ppl. cos I know there's a brand of ppl called 'time-servers'.


Keshi.

Mahesh Sindbandge said...

I dont know but it happens with me too...

Generally if you are so close to your friends, you dont really need to open your mouth..they will make you say the things that are bothering you...
No one is too alone until and unless you think that way...

If things are like, you cannot share it with anybody, then case are quite different...

If there is something shareable, share with us... we might help you...:)

Cheers... :)

Pri said...

hmm if thats the scenario, then u should consider confirming whether u can really call them your 'friends'!!

Jinxed Pixie said...

is it a random thought?

i think it is very much true..

Mayank said...

Yaar, it depends on individual how one see things...

I always try to look on the both sides of COIN..... Keep Smiling...

deluded said...

because someone once said

only the wind is a constant company

deluded said...

*that someone was me

deluded said...

hmm. maybe I was drunk ;)

Harshita said...

I was thinking abt the same thing... koi jawaab mila kya??

Chronicwriter said...

time to get independent

chriz

яノςんム said...

@ Muthu
may be you are right, but i guess, ppl are so occupied with their own problems tht they dun have time to think tht other may also have some prob..

nothing in particular buddy, as i said, juz a random thought.. :)

яノςんム said...

@ Tushar
rofl!!
na re, i realised it way back :D
bas likhna aaj yaad aaya :D

яノςんム said...

@ Kartz
:D
he is such a funny guy :D

yeah ths correct, but to my amazement, ppl around u talk only about things bothering them,, :D

яノςんム said...

@ Ria
hmm.. ths right i guess...

яノςんム said...

@ enchantingki

hmm ths unfortunate to get such ideas tht we dun have good frnz,

hehe.. u said exactly what i think tht their advie dun matter, but on second thoughts, sometimes one feels like talking to someone even if they cant help.. isnt it?

яノςんム said...

@ Pankhu
:D
i know tushar ka comment, overdramatic hai but uski baat mein damm hai :D

and yeah kartz has a point too :D

and m cheered up babes :D
thnx for dropping in..

яノςんム said...

@ Arnab,
u have a point.. taken :)

яノςんム said...

@ Dhanya
ths bingo!! such times help us recognize our true frnz :)
hugz!!

яノςんム said...

@ Ki
yeah, i guess so!!

яノςんム said...

@ Mayz,
but even at times, tht friend is out of sight :)

яノςんム said...

@ Seher,
hope so!!

яノςんム said...

@ Gauri
hmmm... but ths sad..

яノςんム said...

@ Keshi
i know tht happening to u..
but to relief, there are ppl who r frnz in real meaning.. isnt it??

яノςんム said...

@ mahesh :)

thnx for ur concern :) but there is nothing like it.. i wud sure share with u guys, i know u ppl will be ther to read n help out things.. :)

thnx..

cheers!!

яノςんム said...

@ Pri

ahaan.. one cant walk out tht way.. is it??

яノςんム said...

@ Jinxed pixie
hmm random tht occurs every now and then :)

яノςんム said...

@ deluded
hmm tht drunk thought is worth considering :D

яノςんム said...

@ Harshi
:D
sabhi yehi soch rahe hain :D

яノςんム said...

" Chriz
yes sir!! :D

Pallav said...

people say its a sad thot...
but i msut tell u..i always ask ths question from everybody..

till nw i dint get reply..

wht i assume people r selfish.. n they use people wen they want...

i m gonna follow ur blog...

cheers :)
Pallav

яノςんム said...

@ pallav,
thnx for dropping in,
yeah i cudnt agree less, ppl may be selfish and mean but it may apply to us as well :)

thnx for the follow :D

Karthik said...

Its in these times,that we get to realise the mettle we are made of. Atleast thanks to those friends who make us enlighten ourselves of our true potential. we should Deliver once all by ourselves,against odds stacked against us,to feel the exhuberance of confidance and self-realisation of our innerselves !!

Karthik said...

Its in these times,that we get to realise the mettle we are made of. Atleast thanks to those friends who make us enlighten ourselves of our true potential. we should Deliver once all by ourselves,against odds stacked against us,to feel the exhuberance of confidance and self-realisation of our innerselves !!

яノςんム said...

@ Karthik
yeah i do totally agree, its the time wen we realize our true worth and strength and also the ppl who really are our friends :)

Keep coming back :)

Karthik said...

I sure will,Richa. I have become an ardent visitor of ur blog!! Its simply out of the world. Even the simplest of thoughts you express carry such authenticity and grace & elegance ,make one glued to ur articles. I always find some respite in ur blog,after dealing with low brow colleagues who do not even have the eligibility to visit these blogs,let alone talking mature stuff :-)
Really come like a whiff of fresh air,ur blog has,to me.

яノςんム said...

wow ths quiet a compliment!! thank youuuussss...

sawan said...

maybe they are too much involved in their own little life that they fail to see your need! some times you need to remind them of your presence and at times you need to remind yourself of their absence :) ways of life :)

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